Hi, I’m Lisa and I am a family celebrant living in Devon, but working across the South West of the UK.
One of my passions is ‘funerals’ but not in a sad or morbid way. I am a great believer in the power of a ‘good’ funeral or Celebration of Life – whichever is most appropriate.
I truly believe that you should have a choice when it comes to your funeral and how you want to say goodbye – from the more recent idea of a ‘living funeral’ to the traditional burial or cremation that we are all familiar with.
You also do not need to automatically turn to a Funeral Director – you can use a professional celebrant or even arrange the whole ceremony yourself. Let’s have a look in more detail at what choices are out there.
The Traditional: Cremation and Burial
The common practices of burial and cremation are still very popular – maybe because people are unaware of any other options.
Burial of the deceased means interring the body in a grave – normally in a cemetery or churchyard.
Cremation means that the deceased body is cremated which means reduced to ashes – which can then be scattered, kept in an urn, or even turned into a piece of jewellery.
Both of these traditional funerals can be preceded by a celebration of life or a simple ceremony with the deceased loved ones, family and friends – or be unattended if that is the deceased wishes.
A Step Away from Tradition: Natural Burial Grounds
A natural burial ground is a fabulous choice for anyone searching for an eco-friendly option for their funeral, or even someone that has an affinity with the countryside.
These varied sites allow the deceased body to be buried in a completely natural setting, often in a biodegradable coffin or maybe just wrapped in a shroud. Nature is then able to take its course, promoting environmental sustainability within a natural countryside setting. These burial grounds may be set in woodlands, orchards, or open fields – often with spectacular views.
Living Funerals: Celebrating Life while you are still living
A ‘living funeral’ is when someone is given a life-limiting diagnosis or knows they are close to the end of their life and they decide to hold their own funeral to say goodbye to everyone in person.
It gives that person a chance to spend precious time with those most dear to them, to celebrate their life, make lasting memories, and maybe even have a full-on party! It can be a joyous occasion and very emotional, but so very special to that person and those close to them.
Celebration of Life Ceremony
A Celebration of Life ceremony focuses on the positives of a life lived, fabulous memories and shared stories rather than sadness. A Celebration of Life can be held anywhere – in a garden, a favourite pub or even a beach. The Celebration can include music, singing, readings, stories and photographs and is a beautiful way to honour someone in a positive and personal way.
Planning Your Own Farewell: You Have the Choice
Many people now choose to plan a funeral themselves or with the help of a celebrant. This can mean that you have more control over the process, allowing for a more individual and bespoke farewell. Whether you want a traditional service or something completely different, the choice is yours.
I hope this article has given you plenty to think about – and has highlighted some of the many choices that are out there for your funeral or that of your loved one. Please contact me for any more information or if you have any questions. www.ceremonieswithlisa.co.uk.